Hello!

My name is Jessica Ardia and I'm a 19 year old single teen mommy of 4, and this is my story. It all started in the 7th grade, when I met Drake. He and I clicked immediately and we fell in love and because the dream couple. Sex had never seemed like a big deal to me, and I lost my virginity when I was 13 after Drake and I had been dating for 3 months. A month after my 14th birthday in 8th grade (August 31st) I missed my period, and took a test. I was pregnant! It was a really big shock for me, I was definitely scared, I hadn't took birth control at all, because I didn't think I would need it. It was a big mistake. When I told my mom she was supportive, because she knew I was having sex and was afraid I was pregnant because I threw up a few mornings in a row. She took me to the doctor that day (September 1st) and at my ultra-sound we found out I conceived August 31st on my birthday, I was a month pregnant that day and due June 1st. I fell in love with my baby after that, I would do anything to make it through and keep my baby safe! Drake was everything but supportive, he freaked out and hit me, and I broke up with him because he said he hated me that I had ruined his life. It was really hard for me, losing Drake, because I truly loved him, but realized he wasn't the "one" for me. At my 4 month ultra-sound, I found out the gender of my baby, I was having a girl! I was so excited, I had always wanted a baby girl and my dream was coming true. I had my baby June 7th, 2009, when I was 14 years old. I went to school my whole 8th grade year, even when I was pregnant! I graduated middle school with my 9 month belly, and I wasn't ashamed! I named my baby girl Lilia, and she was everything I ever dreamed of in a little girl!

When Lilia was 1, I met Danny. We fell in love, what attracted me to him most was how good he was with Lilia and that he loved her like his own daughter! October 3rd, 2010 I found out I was pregnant again! I was 16. I had grown up so fast with Lilia, I felt so much older because I had matured and gone through things that not many 16 year olds understood. At my 3 month ultra-sound, Danny and I got a big surprise, we were having twins! I was so scared, going from a mom of 1 to a mom of 3, all in a few months! I had my twin boys on May 3rd, 2011 I was still 16 and Lilia was almost 2! Danny and I loved our little boys, Alex and Bradean! Danny and I were together until I was 17, the boys just turned 1 and Lilia was almost 3. He had an affair with another women, so we broke up because I couldn't trust him. It was really hard for me to deal, I had loved him so much and never thought this would happen! It was like a repeat of my life, just like what happened with Drake. A month after we broke up, I found out I was pregnant! I was so freaked out, because we had both used protection and I had no idea how it happened! I found out I was having another girl, I was so happy and so was Lilia! She had always asked me to give her a little sister, and of course I was glad to make her so happy :)

Little Kailyn was born on February 10th, 2012 when the twins were almost 2 and Lilia was almost 4! It definitely changed my life drastically, it was so hard managing a 3 year old, 2 1 year olds, and a newborn! Those first few months were definitely tough! It got easier when Lilia started school in the fall, she was 4 and going to half day full-week pre-K! Alex and Bradean were 2, they were really crazy but still my little baby boys, and Kailyn was still a little baby, but I loved her to death! Now, my life is so busy but I wouldn't change anything for the world! Lilia is 5, I can't believe how big she is! She is in half-day full week kindergarten. Alex and Bradean are both 3, going to twice a week, half day pre-school. I miss them so much, but it makes my life easier! Kailyn of course isn't going to school, she is 1 and a half now! She is walking around and talking, I can't believe how fast she grew up, it's just crazy! I just turned 19, and I am combining my 3rd and 4th year of college classes in online design, I am going to start my own website design company! I definitely have a lot of school work, but I want to get done college as soon as I can because I need to support my family. Drake has no involvement with Lilia, he just gives 50% of his income and all. Danny has a little more involvement with Alex, Bradean, and Kailyn, he comes to visit once a week and gets the 3 of them every other weekend! Danny and I aren't considered friends, but we are cordial with each other, we kind of have to be because of our kids!

There is also one more thing about my life, I'm pregnant for the 4th time! I had a one-night thing with a man Joey this past winter, and I am 36 weeks pregnant, that's 8 months! Joey is fine with it, he doesn't care at all, I mean he doesn't love me and I don't love him. He does love my baby though, it's his first child and all! He wants 50% custody, which I'm a bit wary about because I don't love him and not sure that I trust him with my baby, but I'm sure everything will turn out fine. I am due in a month, but my doctor said he doesn't think I will make it that long! I am having a baby boy, and he will most likely be Andrew! It was one of the only names Joey and I could agree on, it wasn't my top choice but I still love the name, and of course I love Andrew to death.

So I'm Jess Ardia, a single teen mommy of 4 (almost 5!) and that was my story.